I'm a Chicago native but grew up in Naples, Italy and went to school to study Psychology, here in the U.S. After college I studied yoga & meditation in India all with the dream of starting an organization that could help my country live happier and healthier by emphasizing family and community values. Join me on this journey by sharing these articles with friends and family.
The message in this video is the same message that we’ve communicated in almost all of our posts. We believe that the reason Social Anxiety exists is because there is something malignant in today society and it centers around our culture of consumerism.
Understanding women is a monumental challenge for men with Social Anxiety. The only way any man comes to understand how to interact with women is with a ton of experience and the same is true for women. Unfortunately for socially anxious men, we often don’t come out of our shell enough to get that experience. In this guide is years of lessons I learned by trial and error that you can benefit from without learning the hard way.
As socially anxious men, we’re often caught in our own little anxiety hell. We don’t often take the scary step outside of our head and recognize and appreciate the differences in others. If you want more success in the dating world, it’s time to take that leap of faith. This will make you a better man 10 fold. As you struggle to understand women you’ll be stepping outside your world of social anxiety and understanding yourself better in the process.
If you’re like a lot of guys who are stuck in a world of Social Anxiety, your hygiene could use some sprucing up. Since Social Anxiety blurs our vision, many people don’t see their self-image clearly. I have met too many men who believe they don’t have a problem in this area, have bad hygiene and are confused as to why women won’t give them the time of day.
Your body language speaks volumes about you. As a socially anxious man, body language can be one of our greatest challenges when trying to make yourself understood to women. Attempting to fix that in the moment, when you are on a date, is only going to make you feel more self-conscious and nervous.
Practice the techniques in this article at times when you’re not under pressure. Cultivate the following habits over time until they are automatic.
Within all men who are looking for the right lady, there is a charming gentlemen. No matter how shy you are, within you there is humor and charisma. It may be buried under mountains of shyness and anxiety, but it is there.
A good profile will be the right balance between honesty and charm. The charm is the part where you give your reader a reason to keep reading. The honesty part is your chance to show a modest part of yourself that really lets the reader know who you are. This helps them to get to know you and helps you to weed out the girls who don’t relate to you on matters that may be important to you. Continue reading “The Socially Anxious Man’s Guide to Online Dating Part 3: Your Profile”→