As socially anxious men, we’re often caught in our own little anxiety hell. We don’t often take the scary step outside of our head and recognize and appreciate the differences in others. If you want more success in the dating world, it’s time to take that leap of faith. This will make you a better man 10 fold. As you struggle to understand women you’ll be stepping outside your world of social anxiety and understanding yourself better in the process.
If you’re like a lot of guys who are stuck in a world of Social Anxiety, your hygiene could use some sprucing up. Since Social Anxiety blurs our vision, many people don’t see their self-image clearly. I have met too many men who believe they don’t have a problem in this area, have bad hygiene and are confused as to why women won’t give them the time of day.
Your body language speaks volumes about you. As a socially anxious man, body language can be one of our greatest challenges when trying to make yourself understood to women. Attempting to fix that in the moment, when you are on a date, is only going to make you feel more self-conscious and nervous.
Practice the techniques in this article at times when you’re not under pressure. Cultivate the following habits over time until they are automatic.
Wearing the right clothes can make all the difference when it comes to how women view you. You want to be appreciated for what’s inside, but you’ll have to make a good impression before she’ll take the time to get to know you. Here are some tips on what to wear for the Socially Anxious man who’s looking for the right girl. Continue reading “Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part III: What to Wear that Will Knock her Socks Off”
Within all men who are looking for the right lady, there is a charming gentlemen. No matter how shy you are, within you there is humor and charisma. It may be buried under mountains of shyness and anxiety, but it is there.
If you’re not comfortable just striking up a conversation with any girl and keeping it going, don’t. This is a short-term approach and works for some guys. Instead, think long term. As a Shy guy, you want to focus on slowly building rapport and a relationship with the women you want to get to know. Continue reading “Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part I: Getting Started”
A good profile will be the right balance between honesty and charm. The charm is the part where you give your reader a reason to keep reading. The honesty part is your chance to show a modest part of yourself that really lets the reader know who you are. This helps them to get to know you and helps you to weed out the girls who don’t relate to you on matters that may be important to you. Continue reading “The Socially Anxious Man’s Guide to Online Dating Part 3: Your Profile”
Your photo is the first thing any woman will see when looking at your profile. Give a little extra time to this part and put your best foot forward. Women may put less emphasis on looks than we do, but there are some absolute musts when it comes to photos for the socially anxious man. Continue reading “The Socially Anxious Man’s Guide to Online Dating Part 2: Your Photo”