Happiness is in Your Community, Not in the Store.

The message in this video is the same message that we’ve communicated in almost all of our posts. We believe that the reason Social Anxiety exists is because there is something malignant in today society and it centers around our culture of consumerism.

It’s in our DNA to be social. We cannot live well without it due to eons of evolving in groups, not in isolation.

The video starts at minute 5:43 which is where they make the same point we’re making, but please watch the whole video to get the bigger picture.

 

 

 

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part VII: Understanding a Woman’s Mind

Understanding women is a monumental challenge for men with Social Anxiety. The only way any man comes to understand how to interact with women is with a ton of experience and the same is true for women. Unfortunately for socially anxious men, we often don’t come out of our shell enough to get that experience. In this guide is years of lessons I learned by trial and error that you can benefit from without learning the hard way.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part VI: Understanding Our Differences

As socially anxious men, we’re often caught in our own little anxiety hell. We don’t often take the scary step outside of our head and  recognize and appreciate the differences in others. If you want more success in the dating world, it’s time to take that leap of faith. This will make you a better man 10 fold. As you struggle to understand women you’ll be stepping outside your world of social anxiety and understanding yourself better in the process.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part V: Personal Hygiene

If you’re like a lot of guys who are stuck in a world of Social Anxiety, your hygiene could use some sprucing up. Since Social Anxiety blurs our vision, many people don’t see their self-image clearly.  I have met too many men who believe they don’t have a problem in this area, have bad hygiene and are confused as to why women won’t give them the time of day.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part IV: Body Language to Convey the Right Message

Your body language speaks volumes about you. As a socially anxious man, body language can be one of our greatest challenges when trying to make yourself understood to women.  Attempting to fix that in the moment, when you are on a date, is only going to make you feel more self-conscious and nervous.

Practice the techniques in this article at times when you’re not under pressure.  Cultivate the following habits over time until they are automatic.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part III: What to Wear that Will Knock her Socks Off

Wearing the right clothes can make all the difference when it comes to how women view you. You want to be appreciated for what’s inside, but you’ll have to make a good impression before she’ll take the time to get to know you. Here are some tips on what to wear for the Socially Anxious man who’s looking for the right girl. Continue reading “Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part III: What to Wear that Will Knock her Socks Off”

Introducing The ‘Be More Social’ Top Contributor Program

Be More Social would like to recognize the contribution its members have made. Many of our members are working hard behind the scenes to ease the social anxiety of other group members.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part II: The Charm in All of us

Within all men who are looking for the right lady, there is a charming gentlemen. No matter how shy you are, within you there is humor and charisma. It may be buried under mountains of shyness and anxiety, but it is there.

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Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part I: Getting Started

If you’re not comfortable just striking up a conversation with any girl and keeping it going, don’t. This is a short-term approach and works for some guys. Instead, think long term. As a Shy guy, you want to focus on slowly building rapport and a relationship with the women you want to get to know. Continue reading “Guide to Dating for the Socially Anxious Man Part I: Getting Started”

The Socially Anxious Man’s Guide to Online Dating Part 2: Your Photo

Your photo is the first thing any woman will see when looking at your profile. Give a little extra time to this part and put your best foot forward. Women may put less emphasis on looks than we do, but there are some absolute musts when it comes to photos for the socially anxious man. Continue reading “The Socially Anxious Man’s Guide to Online Dating Part 2: Your Photo”